The Good, The Bad.

God gave human what he needs to function in life, including character, emotion, feelings, mention it but don't forget to add Conscience. 

" The thin layer between Good and Bad is call Conscience."

The ability to do bad, to commit sin is inherent in us but when the Holy Spirit prevail over our mind, we will produce good result. 

Immediately conscience comes to play, it helps you see clearly your choices. It then convince you to take good action. 

There's no bad, there's no good. We are all the same. We share God's DNA. 

But when people disallow their ci'science to play a major role i' their final decision, they are seen as bad people. 

The Holy Spirit is the supernatural force behind our conscience. He e'firced our conscience i' us to produce the seed of good. 

Mark 10:8 ....no one is good except my Father in heaven

Psalm 51: 5.The psalmist said he was conceived in sin. 

Jesus was talking to His disciples here. 

The Good, The Bad. 

Before we talk about the Good, let us firstly see the bad side. This will give us a clearer vision of what we expect from the "Good. 

In reality, I have seen women who became single moms due to their bad and inhuman behaviour. 

A married woman who is inconsiderate in her daily dealings in home is actually working against herself. 

When a married woman see his marriage as less important to her career. It is bad a bad act. 

When a woman is not investing in her relationship in a marriage. It is a bad character. 

Another thing that rocks the boat of a good marriage is impatience. No matter the challenge, there is always a bad time for a good act. This bad timing will not make a good act sore. 

Dishonouring your husband is totally bad. 

It is a sign of disrespect and no man likes to be dishonoured. 

Dishonesty is another bad act. When the garment of trust is worn out and torn, it affects marriage negatively. 

Infidelity is one of the bad characters wrecking the ship of good marriage. Involving in extra martial affairs is an idea of the development l. 

STOP IT

The Good Single Mom. 

The scripture said in Proverbs 18:22 that He that found a wife find a good thing and obtain favor from the Lord. 

A wrong choice many times lead to a good woman ending up with a bad man in marriage.

If a bad man find favor with God, he will find a good woman in his search of a wife.

This may at end lead to a broken home if the bad persist in the man.

And the good woman becomes a prey of his bad attitude. The woman is labelled bad once divorced and carry the burden of a single mom.

It is a label but you can remove and detach your good identity from the bad label.

Similarly, when you buy a new garment, the first thing is to detach the label on it. You are a new creature in Christ. 

Ṣee your status as a new beginning. Not as a used or what is referred to as "second hand".

You are brown new bride to the right man. You are never a used good. You are valuable a'd precious. The good character you possess cannot be bought at the mart.

Remember, your type are rear breed. You ain't cheap..

The story behind the good single mom status is always emotional. More tha' 50% of single moms rán for their lives away from impending attack from their partners. Some are depressed and almost lost their health. 

Now that you are in a safe mode, you may have to restrategize and relau'ch your net into the deep.

Don't forget your past in a hurry, use its experience to navigate through your new route. Watch out for signs and occurrence that may cause you a dejavu.

Look for new opportunity to rewrite your story. 

Stand at the front of your mirror and mention your name. Tell you words of strength. Promise your old self a new life.

You are the best. 

God bless you. 

I appreciate everyone that has joined in this short journey. Please make it a date some other time soon on another topic on our blog. 

We love you. 

Yours dearly

Rabiu Adesina 

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