What God has Joined together.

 Mark 10:9

This is  why we are called little gods. God has vested in us a great authority. 

It is only when God says Yes that man can say yes. 

The importance of joining "What" together by God is to Foster love and unity in marriage. 

What" represents two people joined together in marriage. This goes beyond cultural beliefs and social gathering. It is a spiritual concept to create a place for love to inhabit. God Himself institutionalised it. 

In marriage, There is a spiritual chemistry when two people are joined together to become one. 

The experiment is similar to pouring a bucket of water into a flowing river. Water does not separate from water. 

It is also similar to breaking a clay pot on the ground, in no time, it becomes earth. 

There is similarity that cannot be distinguished. Veins in veins, bones out of bones. 

It has to be the exact bone taken from the man, so marriage, fits it back into place. 

The bone taken from the man to create the woman is called the WO bone. After which it has been fitted, she became a WOMAN. 

Now, Let us considered this simple analogy. Imagine you have a paper on your left hand side, a cloth that is torn on the right hand side. Now you are asked to use the paper to repair the cloth where it was torn. Will this be possible?

Firstly, both materials are not of same source. 

Secondly, a paper material can not be joined with a thread on the cloth materials. 

Thirdly, if a gum is used to join them, once th cloth is dipped into a washing machine, what happens to the paper? 

The paper get torn into pieces. 

This is exactly what the scripture is saying. 

God is the one that joins. God cannot make such error when joining. He knows the perfect material to use. 

In a situation where God is excused to join a man and a woman in a marriage, the end is always disastrous. 

But when you invite God Firstly, He will simply remove the unmatch material and look for a perfectly refined match to use in joining them. 

When a paper is used to join a garment material. Once the garment is ready to wash, it spell doom to the paper material that will later lead to the destruction of the paper material. 

In this case, one of the partners may die due to unmatch material. 

The Bone has to matchs

When God is involved, There's nothing wrong when He unmatch to rematch. 

The bíble passage did say.. What God has joined together, let no man put asunder.

Now let's rewrite it for better understanding. Remember we have two main subjects here. God and man. 

"What God has joined together, let man also join together. 

" What God has not join together, let no man join together. 

"What God has joined together, Only God can put asunder. Not any man

Man is not the one doing the joining, it is God. God has a role, so also the man. 

God's role is to join them, man's role is to preserve the joining done by God. 

This means the role of the man is subjected to that of God. 

Many marriages were joined by sentiments. 

Some were joined by their priest without God's consent. 

Human knowledge prevailed in many homes rather than divine wisdom. 

No wonder love is waxing cold in Christian homes. 

Now, let's consider this important point, 

Note, there is nothing God will do on earth that He will not tell man before doing it. 

As a matter of truth, He will do it through a man. This is the reason we see priest ordained by God conducting a wedding God Himself gave consent. 

This is done after much praying and consultation has been done with God. 

Some hear from God in vision, dreams, revelation, word of knowledge, e.t.c.

God's consent is important in marriage. 

Now, it is until God send a message to man to unjoin, the marriage remains. 

The question people are asking is that, Can God put asunder what he joined?

Yes. This is why He is God He can do and undo. 

Every instruction written in the bible is solely for man to obey not for God. 

He knows the reason behind every life's scenerio. 

He is the alfa and omega. 

He is telling man not to put asunder, He didn't tell Himself not to. 

Few priest who knows this truth will not hesitate at His commandment. 

So also, He can still ask what He has put asunder to be rejoined again. Remember our analogy on joining two different unmatched materials. 

He does what He likes according to His will. 

God loves joining whenever He sees true love. 

No matter how many times the joining occurs, once there is love, God's presence is assured in such marriage. 

You cannot keep living in an environment characterised by hatred and enjoy God's presence in your marriage. 

He told the samaritan woman not to stop at trying even she is in her no 6 husband's house. He promised her a living water so that she won't experience divorce again. 

I wrote earlier that water does not separate from water but if pleases God, He can separate water from the water just like He did for the Israelites at the red sea. 

Till now, the blast of His nostrils is still separatung water from the waters

God bless you as you wait for your turn to be newly joined or if you have been joined wrongly, ask God to put it asunder (divorce) and if He has put it asunder already, ask for His mercy to be joined again. 

What God says is what man does.

He is the God of second chance. 

Let's stop here for today. 

Remain blessed. 

Thank you for coming through. We appreciate the time you spent with us. 

We are in this glorious journey to marital Bliss together. God's got our back. 

Together, me and my wife say.... Chao

Yours in love

The Rabius

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